35 Tiny Rules I Use In My Happy Quiet Life
Rules make life easier.
When you’re younger, you despise routine, efficiency, and worst of all, rules. It feels too structured and mundane.
However, as you get older, make more extensive plans for your future, set goals, and have responsibilities and people who rely on you, rules become incredibly important. Developing your personal practices provides freedom in life. As Jocko Willink so famously says, “Discipline equals freedom.”
Rules or codes, or practices that you live by can bring more success, joy, and happiness. Finding the right ones takes time. But, once you do, they make life easier and eliminate so many decisions, leaving more headspace for more important things like creativity, production, and presence.
When it comes to rules, I think of that line from Nick Carraway in Great Gatsby, “I am slow-thinking and full of interior rules that act as brakes on my desires.”
Here are some rules I use in my life:
— Never check my phone for the first 60–90 minutes of the day.
— Sit in silence or read at lunch. This is a great time to steal some silence.
— Drive in the right lane on the highway unless you are passing someone. If you don’t think you are driving this way, please move…
